Socialisation for Life

See how learning society's ways continues from cradle to old age.

  • Define and explain Socialisation for Life in your own words
  • Use key terms such as Primary socialisation accurately
  • Apply what you have learned to new examples and questions
  • Avoid the common mistakes learners make with this topic

This lesson focuses on Socialisation for Life: see how learning society's ways continues from cradle to old age.

Definition: Socialisation for Life

See how learning society's ways continues from cradle to old age.

Key ideas

Secondary socialisation never stops

From the first day of school, new agents take over part of the teaching: teachers and the hidden curriculum of rules and routines, peer groups with their fierce codes of cool, and the media with its flood of images and stories. Peer groups become especially powerful in the teenage years, sometimes pulling young people away from family values. Workplaces, partners and religions continue the process deep into adult life.

Primary socialisation starts at home

In the early years the family teaches the essentials: language, table manners, right from wrong, and what it means to be a boy or a girl in that culture. Because these lessons come first and carry powerful emotions, they sink deepest and are hardest to undo. Sociologists regard the family as the most important agent of socialisation, though families differ greatly in what they teach.

Key term — Primary socialisation: The first and most intense stage of socialisation, usually in the family, where a child learns language, basic norms and fundamental values.

Worked example: Socialisation for Life

An adult moves abroad for work and must learn new greetings, food customs and workplace norms. What does this show about socialisation?

It shows socialisation continues throughout life: adults learn new roles and norms whenever they enter new cultures or situations.

Answer: It shows socialisation continues throughout life: adults learn new roles and norms whenever they enter new cultures or situations.

Common mistakes
  • Thinking socialisation finishes at eighteen Socialisation is lifelong: new jobs, partnerships, parenthood and retirement all require learning new roles.
  • Assuming the media has no real effect The media is a major secondary agent, shaping ideas about beauty, success and normality, especially for young people.

Practice

Name four agents of socialisation.
Start at home, then move outward.

Any four of: family, school, peer group, media, religion, workplace.

What is the difference between primary and secondary socialisation?
Think first lessons versus later lessons.

Primary socialisation is the first, intense learning of basic norms and values in the family; secondary socialisation is later learning from school, peers, media and others.

A teenager starts dressing like her new friends and arguing with her parents' views. Which agent is at work, and is this primary or secondary socialisation?
Which group becomes powerful in the teens?

The peer group, and this is secondary socialisation, which can challenge primary lessons from the family.

Explain Mead's distinction between the I and the me.
One acts, the other is seen.

The me is the self as an object, how we think others see us, built from the generalised other; the I is the spontaneous acting self that responds to the me.

Quick check

Socialisation for Life — quick check

Which of these best defines "Primary socialisation"?

The first and most intense stage of socialisation, usually in the family, where a child learns language, basic norms and fundamental values.

Give one example of the hidden curriculum at school.

Any valid example, e.g. learning punctuality, obedience to authority, competition, or gendered expectations through routines and teacher behaviour.
Key takeaways
  • Socialisation for Life: see how learning society's ways continues from cradle to old age.
  • Secondary socialisation never stops: From the first day of school, new agents take over part of the teaching: teachers and the hidden curriculum of rules and routines, peer groups with their fierce codes of cool, and the media with its flood of images and stories.
  • Secondary socialisation: Later socialisation by agencies such as school, peer groups, the media and the workplace, which build on and sometimes challenge primary lessons.
  • Watch out for: thinking socialisation finishes at eighteen